Sunshine is waiting around the corner

When the storm clouds of life have got you down, just remember that the sun is always right around the corner : )

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Choose to believe

We create our own reality.”

I didn’t believe this for a long time. I guess it was just easier not to.

Sometimes it’s unsettling to think that the place we’re at in our lives this very moment is due to our own choices. All the tiny choices we’ve made over the years have led us to this very spot.

I hope you like the view, because whether on purpose or by accident, you are here.

I think it makes us feel better to believe we have no control over any aspect of our lives. That way, we have less responsibility; something external will always be there to take the blame.

We make-believe that other people or events are responsible for the way our lives have turned out thus far, but this couldn’t be farther from the truth.

The accumulation of our past decisions and actions have created who we are today.

Let’s think about this for a second.

Every action we take has a direct impact on our future. So if our actions today are creating our tomorrow, are we making these actions the most purposeful and wise?

We know we don’t always make the best decisions, but are we learning from the mistakes and making better decisions in the future?

Are we taking the lessons learned and improving ourselves with each day?

We create our own reality.”

This idea is quite liberating once realized. I mean, we have the power to make our lives absolutely beautiful, absolutely wonderful.

We just have to believe it.

Lets choose to believe. Let’s make our reality as bright as the sun shines and pave our way to a grand future.

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Do it anyway

Ever had any of those annoying tasks on your never-ending to-do list’ that just never get done?

I know I have.

And it’s terrible. There seems to be this constant war going on within my mind until I get the darn thing done.

Yet we prolong the pain. We wait until later. We think: “I’ve worked hard enough today, maybe I’ll feel like doing it tomorrow.”

And the war goes on.

Because, (secretly), we really DO want to just get it done, mark it off the list, and be through with it.

But, we make these simple tasks seem so extraordinarily HUGE and SCARY and difficult . We make them out to be much worse than they really are. We cause ourselves more grief by putting them off, than if we would have just tackled them right away!

Then, even worse, we STILL put them off! And the longer we put them off, the longer they get pushed to the side to make room for simpler, less scary tasks. What a cycle, huh?

What if we tried this instead?

The next time you ‘don’t feel like‘ doing something, acknowledge the fact that you just don’t want to do it. Be 100% honest with yourself: “I know I need to do ___, but I just don’t feel like it!”

Then do it anyway.

No more whining. No more complaining.

Don’t feel like it?

Acknowledge those feelings, then do it anyway.

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Waiting..

Have you ever set a goal that had the potential to change the entire course of your life?

I know I have. And on multiple occasions.

I’ve set all kinds of grand and ambitious goals that, if followed through with, could have changed my life for the better.

And you know what? (I’ll be honest with you)

Nearly every goal I set winds up on some ‘to do’ list that never gets done. I’ve had plenty of opportunities for positively changing the course of my life, but it never happens.

Why?

Waiting.

Waiting to start. Waiting for some precondition. Waiting until I know more information. Waiting until I have more time.

One truth I recently stumbled upon is this:

“Waiting for all the green lights is waiting for the skies to turn purple on the third Wednesday in November..There is never perfect timing and waiting for ‘someday’ just wastes time. Someday is today. Today is now.” (MJ DeMarco -The Millionaire Fastlane)

Wow. Now that’s a swift kick in the pants!

Who would’ve thought that waiting for ‘just the right moment’ just doesn’t work? I guess we’re all guilty of this illusion; that if we just ‘had more money‘, or ‘had more experiencethen we would…(fill in the blank).

Well, you guessed it.. We’ll never get ANYWHERE with that mindset!

So how about we challenge ourselves today? Let’s start NOW on our journey. Let’s take one step in the right direction today. It could be as simple as just setting your goal, or brainstorming specific action steps to achieve your goal. Maybe you already know what you need to do, but just haven’t ‘gotten around to it‘ yet.

Whatever the case may be, move forward one pace today. (And do it now!)